Never love something that can’t love you back. They are just things. You may have short-term feelings towards it. For that new home, car or gadget. But it cannot, and will not, ever love you back.
Look at material things as replaceable things. Any experience you desire with a thing can be rented or leased. You don’t need to buy it to experience it.
What truly matters are the long term relationships with other people. The love you share. The happiness and joy that you bring into the lives of others. The memories, experiences and stories that you tell yourself and others. That is the sum of who you are.